Re: I love me

I read and attend several sermons lectures by Cpt Chris Plenkenpaul.

It was very interesting, he said people love themselves first..and they should say I love me rather I love you to the other person.

Because in reality when someone loves someone they feel so much high, passion and butterflies about that special someone that it gives them special Endorphin pleasure. So in reality they are enjoying the pleasure and attachment of being with that person.

It is precieved as if they love the other person. But in reality they are loving themselves first.

This concept is not very pop culture oriented and a lot of people specially snow flakes feel offended​ by this concept.

However in reality when you cannot love yourself first how can you live Someone else?

If you say to the other person I love me. What it means is that you are saying that you love the other person just like yourself. Like you love yourself and your body.

According to Selfish Gene theory we all want to take care of our needs and ourselves first for survival. And there is nothing wrong with it.

Marketing and media has sold this concept in twisted way such as NoteBook and other romantic comedies movies .

In real its loving yourself first.

Re: Dear Zindagi

Last night I watched an year old movie Dear Zindagi. It's a good movie and I would recommend you if you are reading this to watch it as well. The director of the movie did an excellent job as in her past films and earned a token of praise from the viewers.

My review is as follows.

1. Direction 10/10
2. Screenplay 9/10
3. Story and plot 8/10

 Maybe you have watched it already. After watching the movie, you will realize that the main character has a lot of similarities and insecurities like you have in your life and personality.

Also, I learned that the way psychologist treats his patient. I have experienced similar approach from another well know behavior analyst as well. This brings me to the conclusion, people just preach what they read and believe rather bringing something innovative in their thinking.

Now you can go and figure out what characteristics and insecurities you have which the character in the movie also portrayed. 

Influence express itself in different ways

Couple of years ago a Bollywood movie Kal Ho Na Ho was released. It was considered a huge block buster and it did well business both for celebrities and for the viewers + investors too.

In addition the movie left its influence on youth as well. Some youth who have no ambitions of their own (:D)  they got inspired by the movie and followed and imitated the movie in different ways. That's how influence expresses itself in the minds of the youth as well.

For example some young girls started wearing glasses like the actress in the movie as well.

Well, everyone has their own life to live and get influenced independently 

Re: Using Convenient Mix for Cooking

I have a question on my mind. The question goes like this. How do we measure the cooking skills of a person in today's day and age. Using convenient mix to cook specialty dishes such as cake, or baking chicken, turkey etc. does that count?
Even if people do not know how to make one with original preparation and handwork.

I think the answer is simple with the industrialization and advent nuclear family concept. Lives have become so busy and soft. Industry sectors have taken full advantage of this state of the society and have offered the convenience of cooking food or semi-cooked food.

They know the behavior of consumer. The joy you get by cooking a dish is actually the same as the joy you get as a result of working hard.  The consumer feels happy even by mixing the cake mix or baking the meat, virtually feeling as if they did the complete job.

 It is acceptable as at the end of the day consumers are happy for the convenience and manufactures are happy that their product is improving the lives of consumers.

The point to consider is: Is there an irony here?

Re: Winter Weather Shoe Swag

Some people are obsessed with shoes, they want to feel #rugged #empowered #unique
People can have different ways

Such as doing Yoga
Meditation
Showing their obsession with Twitter
Drinking lots of tea
Etc.
Etc.


One way to show winter weather swag is by showing fancy boots. This can also be one of the way struggling international students with high hopes, aspirations and lots of responsibilities to themselves, families and society can do. They can get their high by showing their boot game.

I think that is a good outlet to feel empowered in a little way. #ShoeSwag

Raindrops

 Someone introduced me to this song and the movie as well. They claimed it was one of their favorites. So I thought to enjoy the song once again.

Re: Motivation

The society wants you to act a certain way. They want you to fit the norm which is called consistency so that they can trust you and consider you as a reliable person. I get that and  that's how we are all trained to think in a certain way.

We are trained to put people in boxes such as:

He is sincere.
She is careful.
He is mad.
She is pretty.
He is so bad person etc. etc.

When we don't find fault in someone's​ behavior we tend to find a fault in character or our personal experience with that person.

I wish I was created as a saint with DNA of an Angel. Maybe Almighty Has some other plans for me.
I struggle to prioritize.,...... to fulfill the plans of the one who created me or to please People who think my inconsistency​ aggravates them.

If you are reading this #YouBeTheJudge