Just read a partial traumatic incident from someone who experienced harassment first hand. I would feel sad and sorry about the experience they had to go through. However, who is to blame for the experience?
I think a natural human response is to feel victimized and blame the society on training your mindset and mentality. On another note, blaming the person doing this seems to be a plausible action as well.
All in all, some people assume they know better about the nature of people and their behavior than others. They consider themselves smart by reading and studying behavior academically. Does it help in judging a person in real life as well?
However, having a better emotional IQ and social awareness goes a long way in judging a person in one sitting and one go rather than experiencing these incidents + sharing what happened to you with rest of the world ---all for the sake of attention and sympathies so that you can console yourself how bad people are out there in the world and how innocent and naive you are yourself?
What happens to someone for the first time is naiveness you are not to be blamed, however, if the same incident happens a second time it is your own mistake to let it happen again and own it.
I think a natural human response is to feel victimized and blame the society on training your mindset and mentality. On another note, blaming the person doing this seems to be a plausible action as well.
All in all, some people assume they know better about the nature of people and their behavior than others. They consider themselves smart by reading and studying behavior academically. Does it help in judging a person in real life as well?
However, having a better emotional IQ and social awareness goes a long way in judging a person in one sitting and one go rather than experiencing these incidents + sharing what happened to you with rest of the world ---all for the sake of attention and sympathies so that you can console yourself how bad people are out there in the world and how innocent and naive you are yourself?
What happens to someone for the first time is naiveness you are not to be blamed, however, if the same incident happens a second time it is your own mistake to let it happen again and own it.
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